Men are from Mars Women are from Venus or whatever the fuck it is called - probably the dumbest pop-psy book ever. ( I use the adverb "probably" here because this is the first time I'm reading a pop-psy book).

I bet the guy who wrote the book didn't take one psy course before writing this dumb ass cheeburgerized (american) crap.

I should have known when a blockhead slut from south beach told me that this book helped her save her relationship.


Let me randomly open this book and write whatever sentence that draws my attention.

Here's one

"Remember you don't fully have to understand her point of view to succeed in being a good listener" - page 154

another

page 89
" It is very difficult for a man to differentiate between empathy and sympathy. He hates to be pitied."

What kind of dumb fucking hotdogged bullcrap is this! There is a huge difference between overgeneralization and just talking out of one's ass. Unfortunately, here these sentences fall into the latter category.


One more. 196

"Compliment her on how she looks"

I feel like I'm reading a man's magazine with a lot of fancy ads for deodorants.

It's very unfortunate that there are people out there who are actually taking their time to read this pile of crap when they can sit down and read books like "the art of loving" by Erik Fromm and actually learn something and improve their relationship(s).

Dumb asses. I hate people.

SI TU NO VUELVES- MIGUEL BOSE CON SHAKIRA

poop story/analysis

My school crew, my kids and I were on our way home from the camping site yesterday. we used the bus to get back home as the principal of the school could not afford a private jet or a nice limousine which I deserve and was expecting. Anywho, we got on the bus and I was forced by my dear student to sit somewhere in the middle of the bus. The story does not end there. About half way into the destination, I started hearing words like "poop", "crap", "diarrhea" flowing in the air from the back. As a big fan of poop I am, I started paying attention to the stories kids were sharing with one another.

J: So what! one day, I came home and I saw my sister eating her poop!
E: That's nothing. My brother once made a steak out of poop! and he gave it to my mom and my mom ate it!
Everyone : EWWWWWW
J: no, that's nothing. I once saw my sister playing with poop!
E: And so what? I once peed and pooped in my pants!
J: Well, Me too!
Everyone : Me too, me too!

This conversation I overhead made me raise several questions.
1. Was this story telling a competition?
2. If this was a competition, was it a competition over who can tell the dirtiest story?
3. If this was a competition over who can tell the dirtiest story regarding feces, why did they select this particular subject matter? Because it's provocative?
4. If this was a competition, were they aware of the fact that it was?
5. Why did they constantly mention their family members, or themselves as the protagonists in their poop stories? To earn more credibility? to make the story seem more realistic? their passive aggresion towards certain family members (remind you that when sharing the story, none of the kids mentioned their father)
6. Did telling this story somehow raise their self-esteem?


Another interesting fact about this storyteling was that the kids who were the most aggressive when sharing this story were the students who I found most shy and reserved in class and in basic social settings. Are these two factors somehow correlated?

Why did these particular kids take such a long time/put so much effort in sharing these ridiculous stories? is it somehow related to their lack of self-esteem and unacceptance they feel in the world and in their family situation?

And what about older kids/adults? they may not create some unrealistic poop stories but they may spread false rumours and gossip in an unrealistic manner. They may even compete over who can spread the most provocative rumour. Can this behavior somehow be related to the poop story I overheard from my students?


I wonder.

Who I am and where I stand

When insulted, I like to feign disinterest to avoid hurting the offender's feelings. And to generally show that I can handle it. To avoid reacting sentimentally and change what I can.

HEre the word "can" is important. Because there is so much "conscious willingness" to this "can", It's not about you forcing me or in other words, me letting you shit over me while I'm licking the floor, it's about compromising my needs and yours. But still, you see. I can speak on this rational shit all night long. But I feel very dirty when you insult me. And I do not like feeling dirty. And this is precisely why you will end up with a broken face if you insult me again.

principles of human knowledge

O.K. There's something seriously wrong with my computer and I cannot create a new blog.


What I wanted to write tonight is this:

Let's think of a triangle.

What's the possibility of the triangle that I've created in my head is the same one as the one that you have created in your head ?



God, it's so fucking hot in this joint. I will go sleep now.

I'm getting too many Chinese spammers on this website, and I'm tired of it. (well, actually I don't really care since I never check comments) anyhow, I will start a new blog and I may delete this one when I'm happy with the other. Peace.

What Big Eyes You Have, Dear, but Are Those Contacts Risky?

This is what cartoons do to Asian kids


http://www.nytimes.com/2010/07/04/fashion/04lenses.html?_r=1&ref=fashion

What Big Eyes You Have, Dear, but Are Those Contacts Risky?
By CATHERINE SAINT LOUIS
Published: July 3, 2010
Young women have been copying Lady Gaga’s wider-than-life eyes, but the contact lenses are contraband, and doctors are concerned.

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/06/100630132836.htm

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/06/100630132836.htm

How would you like to stay awake while I'm opening up your head :)

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/06/100618171250.htm

Why am I a non-believer (well I believe in my baby and that's a conscious choice)

No one has a clue, only speculation

Sleight Of Hand And Sense Of Self: Illusion Isn't Always Just In The Mind

Sleight Of Hand And Sense Of Self: Illusion Isn't Always Just In The Mind


So these rubberhand things.. do they come in all colors or what? hahahaha

Can't stand

I cannot stand people who say,


"90´s rap is by far the best...Wu Tang, House Of Pain, Cypress, 2Pac, Delinquent Habits, Geto Boys...Those times when everything was simple and pure will never come back...it´s so sad."


Shut the fuck up. Just shut the fuck up. Those punks(Wu tang, house of pain, 2 pac, etc) were just as loud-mouth, commercial as 50cent, and his G-unit are today. It's interesting the psychology of these people who hold such an exaggerated view of things that happened in the past. Oh dreams.. dreams!

Life was not easier YESTERDAY, the only reason it seems to be easier and more beautiful is because it's already been determined. And there's nothing you can do to change it. Hence, no responsibility for you. (although the increased sense of helplessness, which you can alter by beautifying your past.. dream on!) Your unsatisfying presence does not equal your more beautiful past. An unhappy man can never find a comfortable seat and you would have complained the same if tupac was screaming "hit em up" on TV right now.

Beliefs that increase tension and alternatives

Beliefs that increase tension

A) If I don't get to sleep, I will feel wrecked tomorrow.
B) It's unhealthy for me not to get more sleep
C) I will wreck my sleeping schedule for the whole week if I don't get to sleep very soon.
D) if I don't get enough sleep, I won't be able to concentrate on that big test/conference tomorrow.


Alternatives

A) Not necessarily. If I'm tired, I can go to bed early tomorrow night.
B) Not necessarily. Some people do very well on only a few hours of sleep.
C) Not at all. If I'm tired, I will just go to bed a bit earlier. I will get up about the same time with no problem.
D) Possibly, but my fears may be exaggerated I may just as well relax or get up and do something enjoyable for a while.


I dedicate this piece to mon amour who often has trouble sleeping.

Freedom’s Just Another Word For Less Sexually Active Teens

Freedom’s Just Another Word For Less Sexually Active Teens


When kids stop identifying themselves with the parents.

The Iimbic system

So I gotta write an essay on this bullshit system (it was my choice) fucking boredom
F

unction:


Controls Emotions

Emotional Responses

Hormonal Secretions

Mood

Motivation

Pain and Pleasure Sensations
Structures:


Amygdala

Cingulate Gyrus

Fornix

Hippocampus

Hypothalamus

Olfactory Cortex

Thalamus

Cojones

Craving for coffee and cigs.

Unique childhood experience, Religion - M.Scott Peck, M.D.

Frequently (but not always) the essence of a patient's childhood and hence the essence of his or her world view is captured in the "earliest memory." Consequently I will often ask patients. "Tell me the very first thing that you can remember" They may protest hat they cannot do this, that they have a number of early memories. But when I force them to make a choice of one, the response will vary in favor from in her arms to show me a beautiful sunset" to "I remember sitting on the floor of the kitchen. I had wet my pants and my mother was standing over me waving a big spoon in the air and screaming at me." It is probable that these first memories, like the phenomenon of screen memories, which they so often are, are remembered precisely because they accurately symbolize the nature of a person's early childhood. It is not surprising, then, that the flavor of these earliest memories is so frequently the same as that of a patient's deepes feelings about the nature of existence.


The Road Less Travelled - M, Scott Peck, M.D.

To make life alive - M.Scott Peck, M.D.

"If you move out to another human being, there is always the risk that that person will move away from you leaving you more painfully alone than you were before. Love anything that lives - a person, a pet, a plant - and it will die. Trust anybody and you may be hurt: depend on anyone and that one may lt you down. The price of cathexix is pain. If someone is determined not to risk pain then such a person must do without many things: having children, getting married, the ecstasy of sex, the hope of ambition, friendship - all that makes life alive, meaningful and significant."

- The road less travelled, M. Scott Peck, M.D.

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